FINDING TRUE LOVE

How do you know if you have found your Beloved?
Because of the willingness to step in the fire and burn whatever is not love. Because of the commitment to choose love beyond your limiting emotions such as anger, disappointment, expectation. It's because you accept that you will mess up and that it's ok, you just choose love again. 
Because of your capacity to be compassionate when the other gets angry with you and you are sure you are right, yet still you are able to look beyond your own experience of pain and be only love. Because the other naturally elevates & inspires you and vice versa in doing good things and speak with a loving tongue. Because spontaneous merging happens beyond the physical, in the hidden heart.
Because you accept the other to be your teacher within your Inner Sanctorum, where your darkest sides are being revealed, longing to be seen, held with love and dissolved.
Because you accept the other with all their karma and consciously choose to seek to unveil whatever is a burning symptom and is ready to be burned
Because you choose to forgive instead of arguing. So that the only thing that remains is Love.
 It is the merging that strengthens the thread of Shaktipat (descent of Grace) revealing Absolute Truth. It is because of this spontaneous Merging that confidence, courage and stamina are being built to endure the burning of anger, fear, attachment,  wanting my way.....


Sacred, secretive and spiritual love.The One thing that cannot be crushed, the Only thing that remains your infinite companion beyond your body, mind and emotional heart.
Chinnamasta Stiles